Skip to main content

Queer Books!

We love to read! As a bookseller, Ilse tries to have a broad insight and reads almost everything: crime thrillers, science fiction, romance, children's books, cookbooks, travel literature, social criticismyou name it. Both of us particularly enjoy social criticism books, stories about everyday life, books about queer experiences of life, intense stories, and travel literature. Else also reads fantasy novels and Stephen King since her childhood/youth and a diverse range of literature with her book club in Cologne. In addition, we recently joined a feminist book club online.

Yet, we often struggle to find good queer books, so here are a few of our favorite ones:

One of our favorite books is Less by Andrew Sean Greer. Less was published in 2017 and won the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction in 2018. At the center of the story is Arthur Less, a gay writer, who travels the world to evade his former lover's wedding. The beautifully written story is charming, thoughtful, and funny and takes us to many amazing places. We couldn't stop reading once we started and it is the book Else always recommends.

Disobedience (2006) by Naomi Alderman follows the life of  Ronit, a successful business woman who lives in New York and is forced to come back to where she came from: Hendon, London. The reason for her inevitable confrontation with her own past is the death of her father, a successful rabbi in an Orthodox Jewish community. Of course, the independent woman is a thorn in the flesh of the strict religious community. Ronit meets her family and people from her past, among them Esti, her former childhood friendor maybe a little bit more than that. Esti is now married to Dovid, but the feeling that both women had when they were teenagers seems to still be there. A sad and at the same time funny story about faith, love, and sacrifices. Ilse just couldn't take this book out of her hands.

Last, we would like to recommend A Little Life (2015) by Hanya Yanagihara. We were a bit hesitant to mention this book at all. Else read it with her book club and many didn't finish it—Else didn't sleep very well while reading it. The story is set in New York City and mainly focuses on Jude and his three friends, from their time in college to adulthood. It's a wonderful story about friendship and love, but also about (childhood) trauma, (child) abuse, rape, disability, self-harm, and co-dependency. And although we believe that it is important to raise these issues, some descriptions are way too graphic. Nevertheless, this book is a fantastic read if you can deal with graphic violence.

We have just started Jeanette Winterson's Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit (1985), a semi-autobiographical story and the author's first novel. We'll let you know what we think!

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Cochem: A Few Days in the German Countryside

Cochem is a place in the German countryside, in Rhineland-Palatinate. Although it is a district seat, it is rather small with about 5,000 inhabitants. Although it is probably easiest to arrive by car, traveling by rail is convenient as well. And as you know: we will always prefer to travel sustainably! We had booked a vacation home with a surprisingly comfortable Murphy bed (our first time in a Murphy bed!) and a little kitchen. Although Cochem had almost no COVID-19 cases when we visited, we nevertheless wanted to be careful and a place where we could make our own food was a perfect solution. But although it rained a lot, we luckily could enjoy a few patios. Cochem lies at the Moselle and is part of the Mosel wine region. The Mosel wines are amongst the best (if not the best) wines in Germany and the local/regional wines in Cochem were delicious. Since Cochem is a popular town for tourists and day visitors, there were lots of restaurants. But this popularity also meant that prices wer...

Why Intersectional Feminism Is Important to Us

As white persons born and raised in a Western European country, we are very privileged —more than most people in the world . But, at the same time, we are women and we are lesbians. We are from non-academic working/middle class blended families. We are not skinny. Still, we count ourselves lucky. We know that so many people struggle. Struggle with discrimination in so many ways, on so many levels. And we believe that society/societies should acknowledge these struggles. All of them are valid. Some struggle more, others less. Maybe, some people don't struggle at all. But we never know how severe a struggle is felt that we would disregard. We believe that it is important to share experiences of discrimination, that it is important to make these visible. Perpetrators should not be protected. Perpetrators should be called out. It should be normal to call them out. Both of us have experienced discrimination as a woman, as a lesbian, as a child from a non-academic working/middle...

Are you friends?

Yes! Of course we are friends. We are even best friends. We know almost everything about each other. We spend more time with each other than anyone else. We enjoy each other’s company. We talk for hours, we laugh about the most stupid jokes (and some good ones as well). We can be who we really are—in the joyful moments as well as in the sad or stressed ones. We live together.  But we are so much more than what you are assuming. We also sleep in the same bed. We love each other—not platonically, but romantically. We share more with each other than we would with friends—however close we are with them. When we are holding hands, we don’t do so as friends, but as partners and lovers. And we certainly don’t kiss each other as friends. So while we would appreciate when people would accept displays of affection as natural and shareable with everyone, this is probably not the reason why people think that we are not a couple. Presenting as rather femme, we are too easily mistaken as heteros...