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We Are Moving (in Together)!

Ever since we’ve met, we’ve spent a continually increasing amount of time with each other. At the beginning of this year, we finally decided to move in together! Then: COVID-19, lockdown. And ever since, we haven’t spent a single night apart from each other, but didn’t officially move in together. 

Finding a place was surprisingly easy, despite the pandemic, despite living in a city with a difficult housing market. But we got super lucky: the house where Else lived the past two years has an empty apartment, which is currently overhauled. It’s going to be available in September. Three rooms, a big balcony, perfect location. 

Else had terminated her lease to end in June, but COVID-19 has taught us that we can share Ilse’s smallish apartment. So we didn’t mind to wait a little longer for an almost perfect apartment. And now, we finally got our official rental agreement!

We can’t wait to move in together (although we practically already did). We are mentally painting the walls, we already looked at kitchens, we are planning the furnishing—particularly for our balcony! Although we already live together, in a way, it’s going to be so exciting to move into an apartment that we both chose to rent. 


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