Our Secret Passion: Romantic Movies about Older People

We love movies with older people! They show that we can be happy when we are older and we love the idea of growing old together. And even if people don’t have anyone while growing old, it’s never too late to find someone. And, maybe most importantly, these movies star old(er) actors and particularly actresses who so often aren’t engaged anymore—even though they experienced so much in their lives. As actresses and as protagonists.

Here are a few of our favorite movies:

Something’s Gotta Give (2003)

We love Diane Keaton! In this movie, her character continuously changes and develops. She is self-confident and comfortable in her body and her life. The movie illustrates that we can love and find love in every phase of our life. This movie tells a wonderfully amusing story about love later in life.

The Leisure Seeker (2017)

A movie about a married couple who spent their entire lives with each other—including all the ups and downs. To reminisce about their shared life, they go on their last journey with their old camper van, the Leisure Seeker, which is filled with beautiful memories from past vacations.

Our Souls at Night (2017)

Two neighbors who live alone ever since their spouses died. One day, she has enough of her loneliness and asks him to visit her and share her bed—platonically. Although sounding like a weird concept, this movie is one of the most heartwarming stories about intimacy.

Book Club (2018)

As a bookseller (Ilse), a book club member (Else), and Diane Keaton lovers (both of us), we simply had to watch this movie! And it didn’t disappoint. A group of four female friends decides to read Fifty Shades of Grey at their book club. The book (and its sequels) change their views on romantic relationships. A wonderful story about love and friendship!

If you are looking for heartwarming movies for cold, rainy nights, these are perfect picks. (Further suggestions are much appreciated!)

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